Christy
Ann Stone... that's what I named you when you were born. I got to
hold
and feel your warmth one time before you were taken from
me. I want
to
tell you about our beginnings and my search for
you.

I was in the Salvation Army
Unwed Mother's Home in Tulsa, OK in 1965.
My labor record number at the
St. John's Hospital was 4064 and I had to
use an alias of Betty Sanders.
If I had known that your adoption was going
to be closed and sealed I wouldn't have given
you up. I would have managed
somehow even without
a family to turn to. I came from a very abusive and
emotionally sick family
that was very secretive. My mother told neighbors
and family that I was
visiting my aunt in Chicago. The truth really was that
I was at the Salvation
Army Home for 6 months until my mother came to
pick me up. I had just
turned 18 before you were born in August. My
Birthdate is July 22, 1947.
I completed High School when I was 16. When
the other girls' parents came
to see them on weekends, mine were not
there.
It's a long story and I
pray that I will be able to tell you about it
someday.
I've been through
a lot of counseling over my relinquishment over
several
years and I have
settled issues from the past with my family, even though I
do
not have
a relationship with them. You were born on August 19th, 1965
at 1:14 am
at St. John's Hospital in Tulsa,
OK. You weighed 8 lbs. 2 oz.
and were
21" long. You were the most beautiful
baby in the world! When
the
time came to let you go, I vowed that it wouldn't be
the last time we
had
together, that someday I would find you. 15 years ago
I was emotionally
ready to start searching for you.

My maiden name remains
in the Dallas phone book where I have lived since
1973. I have also put
my maiden name in the Oklahoma City Phone book
under Bonnie Lee Stone.

I am on the Oklahoma Mutual
Consent Voluntary Registry. My file number
is 99-1210 and I have been
placed in their Reunion Registry. I am supposed
to be notified by a Confidential
Intermediary if you are trying to find me
through them.

I also registered with ISRR in Carson City, Nevada and was put on their
National Registry.
The Salvation Army Un-Wed Mother's Home had to
close their homes in the
early 70s due to lack of funds. I went back to the
home where I was staying at hoping to find out some information, but the
home was
gone!

I was so alone and frightened
back then. I didn't know what to do. I am so
thankful for the Salvation
Army for harboring me. I had no family or friends
to turn to.

Christy Ann, I would give
anything to know that you are all right and were
placed with a loving
Christian family. I need to fill this empty space in my
heart that has been there since 1965. I will not intrude in your life if you
don't want
me to. I just want to know that you had a good life and are
healthy. I
pray you had a wonderful Christian family that raised you. That
you were
loved and that you loved them. You are in my heart, my prayers
and my
thoughts every day, Christy.

You have two half sisters
that would love to meet you and share their love
with you. I have been
married to a wonderful man for 34 years, who is very
supportive of me finding you and he also would love to share his love with
you.

I will always love you.
I will Never give up searching for you!
You were my first
birth daughter!

I
FOUND MY BIRTHDAUGHTER
ON OCTOBER 12, 2000
HER
NAME IS JENNY!

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